I'm sorry. There is a horrible aid at my ds9's school but thankfully his teacher is amazing and totally has his back and went to principal and made it clear bad behavior won't be tolerated.
I think the car line is crazy in general--they have done similar to my ds who has Down syndrome (I mean it seems pretty clear to me that they might understand why it takes him a little longer to get in,out of the car. But car line is not pleasant at my son's school . I think this is a school culture thing too, because the experience at my dd5's school car line is not so stressful.
