Originally Posted by HowlerKarma
Inclusion isn't just about the letter of the law, but also the spirit of it, which is about making sure that "the children in this classroom/club/activity" means all of "the children." Not just the non-disabled ones.

YES YES YES!

Also, to the OP, don't know if it has been mentioned but I love the book from Emotions to Advocacy and could be very useful in your situation. Also, if you ever get a chance to attend a Wrightslaw workshop they are great.