DeeDee, I like your sign. smile That's a great idea.

Originally Posted by HowlerKarma
Might even be worth addressing with the school-- that this is clearly something that your child does not yet understand is a social rule, and it's a work in progress. smile

This is a really good way to make the point I think that the OP was trying to make with the band teacher (?). It clearly says "Sorry," "You were right," "I'm working on this with my child," and "He's got a ways to go yet."