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From time to time, gifted adults fortunately find this forum when they may be struggling. After some discussion they may reveal that they wish their parents woulda-coulda-shoulda done things differently.

Not coincidentally, many parents may have similar thoughts, "If I knew then what I know now...!"

This post is intended to foster mutual understanding that it may be difficult for parents to become well-versed in giftedness while managing other responsibilities... and prior to information being readily available on the internet, it was nearly impossible... unless you happened to know someone who happened to know someone who was open to discussing the topic, sharing the story of their journey, and pointing to the few resources that were available at the time.

Although some families may have multi-generational history in recognizing, accepting, and nurturing giftedness... many families do not, therefore parents inexperienced in gifted differences have often been caught off-guard and unaware. The book, "A Parent's Guide to Gifted Children" (James T. Webb, et al) was published in 2007, and only in recent years (as the internet became accessible to more people, and search engine strength increased) did more parents become aware of support for gifted children... via SENG, Hoagies Gifted Education Page, Davidson Institute, and the blossoming network of schools, camps, and even specialists well-versed in giftedness throughout the lifespan.

Here's a thread which may be of interest - Gifted adults-what did your parents do right/wrong (2012).

If it helps to commiserate, there are many in the same boat... "Welcome to the club!"
There is much helpful information and inspiration to be found on this forum... both in old posts and new.

I'll close with an encouraging quote from Dr. Seuss, as seen in the book, "Oh, the Places You'll Go" (1990)
"The book concerns the journey of life and its challenges." - Wikipedia