What I did to solve play dates where the IQ's were obviously mismatched is I dumbed down the activities so they were inclusive of all. For example, we'd rent a fun Pixar movie (because the storyline is simple but the undercurrents were often quite adult humor to appeal to both levels). We also did fun baking projects like decorating cookies with sprinkles, making homemade playdough and crafting things out of it, or playing tag or other physical activities outside. As long as the activities centered around an inclusive activity or physical activity, we were fine. It might help your daughter enjoy the kids available for her to play with, because we can't always find the perfect match in every situation.
Hope this helps ...
