Go DH! That is a great perspective to take! But LOL that this is such a big deal! See if you can get that private psychiatrist to write a note about how important it is to allow DS to deviate from the organizational plan. I wish I could find a similar binder to that favorite one, but this one might do the trick as well -
http://tekgems.com/Products/et-56522-car-scmo-3-blu.htm

I would just cut out the extra flaps so that there is only 'homework to do' and 'homework to hand in'
DS also liked a third section for 'homework that isn't due tomorrow'

Good luck!
Grinity

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