I think it is admirable that StevenASylwester wants to help this young man, and perhaps he can write in a private message.
Thanks for the links Steven but I do not have time or interest to read them. I agree with Giftodd, you went off on a tangent. And many of us do (I cannot throw the first stone in this case -- to use a biblical reference).
So, as James Carville suggests, repeat the message, please send these more detailed views of who and what this young person looks like, dresses like and should do about it, in a private message.
Ren
