Katelyns mom and flo flo, I also feel like a kindered spirit. I was diagnosed as highly gifted as a child but my mom wouldn't allow me to be part of the "MGM" (Mentally Gifted Minors) program because she didn't want me to think I was better than others(!) I don't identify with most women and I love power tools and restoring houses as a hobby. My husband loves that he can buy me power tools for Christmas :-). I also ended up in an Engineering consulting firm (as a planner). Have you gals read "Aspergirls" by Rudy Simone? I just read it due to some issues with my daughter and it totally describes the androgynous/anti stereotype issues along with a lot of other things I always thought were just my little quirks. Very interesting stuff.