funny enough...I've googled gifted adult women and I keep coming up with the same articles and pages hehehhe. It seems like I have read most of the pages. I have tried rearranging my wording etc...I think it's interesting though because like Grinity mentioned everyone seems to be gifted in different ways. Which might be my problem as well. I keep looking for someone like me. hehehe. I won't find them. Luckily I have some friends whom I can relate to in ways and I am getting a deeper understanding of myself and my expectations. I am going to try and get that book from the library. thanks deacongirl