My suggestion would be to start looking at your other school options. Can you homeschool? Are there any gifted schools Or Montessori around? Can you get the testing done again? If he qualifies for DYS there is lots of help there. Look for Gifted Parenting Groups too. Read as much as you can about gifted. Are there any gifted laws in your state? If you do something you will feel better.
This is hard. Hang in there. I struggled to get my son appropriate learning for 3 years at school. In the last year, after DYS counseler talk to the GT teacher, I realized this school is so far from understanding and will not meet his needs. Before this I kept thinking I have just not explained our situation well enough. I now drive my kids to a gifted school. My kids are happy again.
Good Luck to you.
