As far as the application goes, I think what makes most sense is to consider WHY they include that statement and see if in that context your daughter has a problem. My guess is the statements is included would be for two reasons. 1. to protect the safety of other children in the program. Participants should know they are able to attend events and have their children be safe. 2. To protect the reputation of the program as no program would want to be associated with violent children.
Of course these are just logical guesses on my part, but pretending for a minute that they are correct. Would you say your daughter has problems with violence in these ways? Do you think if she attended a get together that other gifted children would be in peril? Do you think she's got the sort of violence problems that would potentially ruin the good name of a program? If either of those things are true, I think downloading the DYS application for sport would not be the first thing on your mind. So, I'm guessing what you are describing is within the realm of age typical misbehavior that is upsetting, but will resolve with work and not what the application is asking about.
