Earth to Oli: Ruf level '3 or 4' just plain isn't 'MG or HG' - it's PG, at least by Davidson standards as 'too high to be measured by modern IQ tests' either take my word for it, or if you have the cash, set up a phone conference with Dr. Ruf. You need to get yourself over your denial before you go back home, because you are going to have to step up to the plate and be the family leader on this issue. Leaders deserve support!
Love and More Love,
Grinity
I'm thinking maybe I'm biased and she is not really 3-4, it is possible she is just an early bloomer. At this point I'm happy she loves her daycare, has two good friends there and one amazing teacher. I'll see in a year if we need to do something before moving. Thank you for all the advice and support
