Grinity ... great advice and something we all can be reminded of when we are in the heat of it. I, myself, had a few frustrating months with my 3 yr old and was definitely ready to pull my hair out. I had to step back and take some breaths. Talking to my DH helped. It was when I realized it was more me than her and changed my tone and method of handling it that she came out of her phase. We still have moments and I catch myself raising my voice ... but I just remind myself that hey ... I'm learning too.

Just want to send you a big hug ... I know it can be frustrating and I am only dealing with a 3 yr old. :P