Wow- I must say that I have had almost the same reaction to the developmental milestone charts- part of me has been amazed as to how quickly my LO has moved through the different skills, and part of me has felt bewildered- sort of like- what next? If he's mastering skills that a 3-4 year old is still unsure of, then how do I guide him to appropriate peers, schooling, etc. I'm already worried about the lack of GT school programs here and as my LO is very physically busy, it may be even more difficult.
SO glad I found this site- I really appreciate hearing other's reactions and stories.