I like this set of web pages
http://www.pbs.org/parents/childdevelopmenttracker/two/index.html
(see, click to subjects e.g. Mathematics, and to different ages, on the left) because much of it is phrased in terms of "Most children can... Some can... A few can..." rather than just giving what a typical child can do.

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