Onsie -
I know that you are ready to have some of the weight lifted, but think very carefully if you want the weight lifted from the academic area or the social area. My hunch is that anyone with a child who is in the 'top 3%' type of gifted is best to let the weight lift from the social area and save themselves for the academic area.
Perhaps another thread can be started looking for ideas about homeschooling activities that suit your family? Same basic advice - intead of waiting for school to solve your challenge, reach out and look for new oportunities to make it work for you 'right now!' As young as she is, you can just start her on workbooks from the local bookstore, and see if she likes them! The goal is to get to know yourselves - her as a learner, you as sidekick.
Smiles,
grinity
