ya, you are exactly right...she doesn't have to stay in the school. We would be out 2 months tuition (not a huge amount at this school) and the uniform cost.

I guess what I will do is tour the few schools I am looking at then choose one and give it a shot. If it doesn't work out then she can stay home. Or if I decide that she is going to stay home regardless then we are only out the application cost.

Thank you so much. This is so hard for me because it is the first school experience for her, and first for me as a parent. It is a bit stressful. I want her to love school, like i did!

Anyhow...thank you all so much again!