Thanks, the stories and advice here from every one are so helpful.
I found a behavioral optometrist by our house that will do an assessment.
I also was thinking maybe I am worrying about nothing. The issues she is having could simple be asynchronous development. Her eyes can not do what her brain wants to do yet. This could just be age. It seems like every time she has a big jump in one area it takes time for her body to catch up and she gets frustrated.
I think I will take her for the assessment just to be safe. If she dose need glasses or therapy, I would rather do it and not have her spend a year frustrated until we go back to the regular eye doctor.