I'm tagging onto this thread as I just got Dr. Ruf's book yesterday, devoured it in one sitting and am so grateful to her right now.

It feels like I have suddenly had a light shined on our DS9 and what I'm seeing takes my breath away... So much about him makes perfect "sense" and instead of feeling all those explanatory sensations "but I think all (fill in the blank) is really because he's processing things differently" I'm finally feeling relief and JOY! at who this magnificent person truly is.

I tell you, her book has changed our lives.

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