Thank you so much for all your responses. I did set him up to see a counselor and he has and will continue to go just so he has someone to talk to. He is an introvert but is happy to be around others, is on the swim team and gets along well with his teammates. He is basically a good kid, and sensitive. He told me last night " You know, mom, I have never done my homework except the period before." I tokd him I did know it, but that the strategy stopped working for him last year in Advanced Chemistry and BC Calculus...but the problem is he just accepted the low grades and made a 4 on the AB Calc test so I am not sure what message that gives him...I am going to go to some of the websites and check out the book. One of my friends suggested sending him to a technical school. I think he only need 1.5 courses ( English and a Life skills class) to graduate with a regular diploma. . He took a 3000 level Programming class this summer at the university. Seemed to learn alot and wrote programs, but because of one program assignment ended up making a C instead of the B he had in everything else. I just don't th ink grades mean one single thing to him. I don't know if it is an option to take him out /sit out for a year. I work full time and can't imagine how you could homeschool given that...is there a way.
Again THANKS!!!!!