Your post made me sign up. Your 15 year old sounds amazingly like my 13 almost 14 year old son. Only difference is his school has done nothing but label him. That being said - if your son is as much like mine as it seems counseling isn't an option. My son has made it very clear he wants no part of it. He's been to several different counselors and does not have any use at all for any of them. I'm not saying I agree - just stating his opinion. Has your son been diagnosed with ADD/ADHD?