Have you seen this website?

https://taniaannmarshall.wordpress....omen-adult-women-with-asperger-syndrome/

I don't know how based on clinical knowledge it is. Much of it does seem to apply to my DD, who I consider sort of subclinical/"gray area" Aspie. Some also applies to me, and I would never consider myself an Aspie or on the spectrum, though I am sensory sensitive and quirky in other ways.