Hugs. I feel for you too.

I did a quick search for dyspraxia and writing and found these links from the UK that may help. The first link has suggestions for alleviating the issues with handwriting and the second one has links to tools you can buy, they are in the UK but perhaps you can find similar here.

I think most people here in the US have not heard of DCD (which is what the condition is called here in the US), which may explain why your DD's teacher thinks her problems are of her own making. In the UK I think more people are aware of dyspraxia (which is what it is called there).

http://www.dyspraxiafoundation.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/handwriting_and_dyspraxia.pdf

http://www.thedyslexiashop.co.uk/st...ting-aids.html?learning_difficulties=144