I am going to be furiously waving the 504 at all the middle school teachers. They had better follow it!!
I would advise against approaching teachers (or anyone) in this manner as it seems unnecessarily adversarial. Some may say it does not describe a team approach or healthy collaboration among adults role-modeling mutual respect but rather sounds a bit negative, offensive, insulting.
Sorry, didn't mean to come across as the angry mom. I, for the most part, have had the best relationships with our teachers (except, the big bad recent 4th grade one!!). But even our sweet loving 5th grade math, science, and LA teachers aren't following the 504 so it's frustrating. They just forget until I give examples of what happens when we don't work with DD!! Actually DD's science teacher handed an important paper to me to day and said with a smile that she knew it would be safer with me than handing it over to DD to take home. Yep! She's learned.
