If I find the teacher scary then I guess to ds7 he is even more scary. I am glad it works for you kids but it sounds a lot like refusing to help the victims of domestic violence because they aren't strong enough any more to leave.

To the OP. Maybe brief both DH and DD thoroughly before the next meeting.

Eta. I like the idea of email communication though. Although there is a risk the teacher will think it comes from you.

Last edited by puffin; 10/08/14 11:35 AM.