I hear you! And agree! I do think it is more the place of teachers, etc. to point out where they see the child struggling. Not offer a Dx (because they are not qualified) but to point out "I notice he struggles with this, this and this... we could do this to help, maybe look into an OT/PT/Psych eval, etc.," I don't appreciate it unsolicited from "friends." I mean, if you're noticing something, chances are the parent has too and is doing something, or researching or whatever. Also, some medications can affect a kid and you may not be privy to that, ykim? Which all goes along with not knowing the whole equation.
