We don't even really "after school", we "after dinner", because I'm a FT working single mother and consequently, DD is at the afterschool program at her school until about 6pm every day. And they don't really do any academics, unless you count learning the basic rules of chess. Homeschooling is not even a possibility, and since DD is also 2E, private school isn't either (even if we could get financial aid, but likely not).
We are moving to a new district next year, and I'm hoping all their talk pans out and they're really more flexible and accommodating than the current district. That's really about all I can do, at this point. Though I'm getting an au pair next year, too, and hopefully can find one with an interest in science and/or math.
