Has anyone else dealt with this?
Yes. From what I've seen of my DD, this is THE big growing-up issue with HG+ children. An N of one, of course. The basic problem is that there is no place where they TRULY belong full time.
It's the reason, I'm sure, why EC and Davidson exist. Most kids aren't fortunate enough to have access to that, however, which means that they have to learn to be very different people in different settings-- and often as not, nowhere that they can be their complete, true selves.
More later, as I'm about to hit the road to meet a woman about chickens.
