My DD also needs a lot of sleep. She required 12-13 hours at age 5. Now at age 8 she needs 10.5 which is still really hard with working parents and the homework load plus 1 extracurricular. In reality 10.5 means sleeping at 8:30 and up at 7:00. she really needs up at 6;30 when we are both working and she will never be able to be asleep by 8:00. It always shows in her mood/behavior (along with her need for regular snacks/food).

I would try to get rid of the melatonin, but I'd do whatever needed to get enough sleep. Kids who need sleep need sleep, otherwise no one is happy. I'd also discuss sleep needs with pediatrician, but if you look at research, most kids don't get enough sleep. Gifted kids often don't need as much sleep as others…but not always.

good luck!

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