Thank you. I'm sorry that I am defensive, and that I misunderstood deacongirl's comment. I've just been getting a lot of pressure to skip from a lot of people, and all I was asking for here were suggestions for how to make it work WITHOUT skipping... then got lots of responses about why to skip. And I may get there, but that's not what I'm looking for right now. I'm trying to make that the last resort.