I think it's really important that the reason for a skip (or not) boil down to what best serves the CHILD in question.

NOT what best serves:

the school
parents
neighbors
extended family
friends with more NT children...

Too often those other things get rolled into this decision and wind up being inappropriate pressures on parents. Being aware of where some of that is coming from is important here, I think.

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