Dandy-- same exact story here.

I mean, she plays Bach and Mozart, and she plays Billy Joel and Elton John... and (lamentably) Coldplay. Mostly to irritate my DH, who loathes Emo. LOL.

But she plays and enjoys playing, mostly. That's far more important than a willingness to develop the chops for competition.

Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.