I guess I should just be happy he's not refusing to go or doing anything more dramatic than rolling on the ground in tears. But it's discouraging, to have assumed that everything must be going okay and then to listen to a list of "and then he".
I feel you - this totally sucks. I had the same reaction to DD's 2nd grade teacher with similar comments. DD does not have any memory of much of the bad behavior that is reported by adults. The camp nurse called me from Girl Scout camp this year to discuss her overreactions, but DD didn't remember any of it when she came home.
All I can say is to let yourself feel the discouragement, then buckle down and work on it. This too shall pass (and so will he).
