You should never have to feel like you have to justify reason for wanting to have her tested to anyone. For us it was the best thing we could have done as well. In our situation it was never a question weather he was gifted, but rather to what degree. I was so confused trying to understand my son. After finding out he was PG, it all made so much more sense and I feel I relate to him so much better. Being in the dark was hard.
It is not about a "number", it is about knowing where your kid is on the spectrum to be able to support his needs. Not just academic, but most importantly, his emotional needs. Good luck!
