My gut tells me that the 2E school I found in New York may be necessary even if it means totally disrupting our family.
I'm a big believer in following your gut instincts.. but I would also be very wary of uprooting my family for a school that I haven't had a child enrolled in and experienced first hand. I think that the school you're referring to in NYC is a school I've read about online, and it sounds great, but what a school is advertised as and how it plays out for any one individual child can be two wildly different experiences. I've found that even when I've had good feelings one way or another about local schools based on feedback I've received from other parents... the actual "how" of how the schools have worked out for my kids can be very different (not just for 2e ds, but for my dds too).
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