I should add I do like hearing that things will turn out fine (even great) ... etc etc... I like those anecdotes, the success stories - they do gve me hope. My husband is one... he had hyponita and some toher issues... They treated him kindly at school but treated him as he were slow cognitively and he blew them away in middle school. So... I ove those stories. I just hate the "you're lookig for problems, he is/will be fine" type sentiments. There is a difference albeit subtle at times. My mom told me I take my son to "too much therapy" - "I don't like all this therapy!" she said "He'll be fine! The more therapies you go to the more problems you find!" Just tell them "no" enough... Like soemone is forcing me to take my kid to therapy. Love her but I really wanted to tell her to shove it.
