You have enough clues to be worried about this. I'd go get the dyslexia testing. If you find an issue, you can work on it earlier. If there is no issue then you can stop worrying. We knew that dyslexia ran in my husband's family. The school thought that we were crazy (and still does). We waited to test until after first grade. I wish that we had tested after kindergarten. We might have been able to avoid the "year of tears." Remember, when your kid is 2e, the normal rules just don't apply. You will need to get used to not caring what other people think.