By the way, my thoughts come from the camp of woulda-shoulda. I was really hard on my son in elementary school and made him do hours of homework in hopes of forcing him to catch up. Dysgraphia is often part of a developmental delay, and sometimes all that is needed is time. I wish I'd gone easier on him and advocated harder for less work, because all it did was build anxiety and a dislike for school that has taken years to repair.