ABQ, that's so hard.

Her professors are likely not allowed to offer accommodations unless she gets them officially-- they are probably about as frustrated with her as you are.

Are you willing to fund college indefinitely, or would you cut off the funding at some point if she doesn't finish? It would be good for her to know what her deadline is in advance, so she can try to plan to hit that goal, if that's what she wants to do.

DeeDee