p.s. I think it's a good thing that your DS has good or more advanced motor development (my DD's is always lagging enough to be a concern and to keep her out-of-sync with a more motor-typical child, but not poor enough to qualify for any services, she's just always 'a day late and a dollar short' poor kid) but we focus on things that aren't competitive and where she is just enjoying being outside and moving around.

The reason I say it's good for your DS, even though you worry that it will hide any other issues they might be looking for in an eval, is that can be a way to make sure he keeps his self-esteem up if he's going through 2E issues, especially when he gets older and/or attends school. Hopefully, anyway, a good eval will seperate all the issues.