To claify, DD made a comment about how he could do something, since he had one arm. I cannot remember, since it has been years, but it was a statement. "you can't do ...." It was hurtful since his parents emphasize he can do anything. She had to learn how hurtful it was and wrong for her to say it. To this day, they are still friends and I think it was right for her to go and apologize, though she fought me on it and cried in my arms afterwards. But they played the rest of the summer. I think he would have harbored a grudge against her if she hadn't said sorry. And rightfully.
It was a great learning opportunity and she is great with kids that have disabilities nowa and respectful.
Ren