I don't want her to experience what I (and my own father) did as a direct result of how remarkable that number seemed to others. She's an obviously HG kid, but she's a lot more than any number on any one day. I prefer that the other adults in her life see HER and not the number-- and this includes her teachers and school administrators.
So do you fear that your opinion of her will be altered by the numbers? If she was tested privately you are not obligated to give that information to teachers or administrators. To me it sounds like you are giving this a lot more power than it needs to have. Many of us have IQ test results for our kids and not one negative thing has happened as a result. Sure, taking out a billboard or passing the info around without thought is a bad idea.
