We pretty much swore off Disney films when my daughters were little. They were too "powerful". Actually, my HG dd11 still won't watch TV or a movie, but that's more about how she is wired than the content of the entertainment.

You might check out Dove.org for movie ratings/appropriateness. The site lists a content chart and descriptions that gauge six criteria: Sex, Language, Violence, Drug and alcohol use, Nudity, and Other. It truly gives you every detail (the number of times it shows cleavage or a character uses "language".)

And yes, although I can't remember specific examples, I do remember emotional reactions from my dd so "out of proportion" to the event that we were a little panicked. We didn't know what was going on. Now that she's been "identified" (and since I've been reading this forum smile we understand her so much better.