For the record, DS now 7 learned to read sometime between 2.5-3 years old (I don't know exactly because he was self-taught, and we didn't recognize it until a few weeks before he turned 3). And even with that knowledge, his preschool didn't get it. It wasn't until they were told he was grade skipped because he was brighter than the average bear that they got it and tried to take credit for it (at my DD's pre-k meeting)!!!!
So, if she does learn to read, they will just blame you for hot-housing, whether you did or not.
