DD does have huge perfectionism tendancies. She truggles with that in everything and we work on bshowing things don'thvae to be perfect everyday, but i never thought about it playing into this. Your right. She is looking for that PERFECT friend, and no one is ever going to be that. Thank you for the article. I glanced over it, but am going to really read in thouroughly tonight.

I really appreciate all the help. I did feel like a faliure. Like we took her away from where shehad some good fit friends and stuck her here and I can't fix it. Sigh.


DD6- DYS
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