I'm honestly not sure what you're looking for here. You seem to have made up your mind --- instead of question marks in your posts, I'm seeing a lot of judgmental statements.
So are you just looking for an audience --- rather than the opinions of others and possibly a new perspective?
Val
I do value the feedback and have actually taken a good bit of time to think about it, but some of it I take and some of it I leave.
Do you do anything fun beside school?
You can always have non-academics fun with your ND classmates.
Honestly, I spend a lot of my fun time of ANY sort alone and I don't mind that at all. It's how I recharge.