Wren

I am from china, I can tell, your thought very much like chinese.

When I was young, I did not have much fun in my childhood, all I have done was studing hard to get in good UNI. Stay awake till 1 or 2 am is pretty normal in high school.

Nowdays, the situation of children in China even worse
I don't want my son repeat my life, but also, I would like him to know, he has to work hard to achieve things...

So, there is balance there...