Thanks so much everyone - I really do appreciate the help. My dh and I really do just want to do what is best for ds. We are real advocates of education (six degrees between the two of us) and know that learning is such an important part of life. We really do thank God that He trusts us with such a special little boy. However, we remind ourselves every day that he is still just a toddler and some days all he wants is to cuddle and snuggle and those days are wonderful too!
I am honored to be in such great company with all of you wonderful parents of great kids and look forward to learning all that I can (and sharing information too!). Thank you again for the kind welcome and the great advice!