I've been in many situations where my kids said everything was fine, only to find out later, there were things going on that weren't ideal and they were bothered.

I give my kids a lot of lee way as well, and perhaps this isn't a situation where Kriston should pull her son, but at this age group the parents really have to be making these decisions. No matter how smart the children are, they don't have the life experience to always make the right call.

It's like asking a 3 year old why they did something they weren't suppposed to. They don't know WHY they did it, the just did it! smile