I'm sorry to hear that your evaluator was so non-professional. What types of things are you thinking about trying now? Has your son had ABA therapy? My son is 7, and also has ASD. Right now, he gets 12 hrs of in-home ABA therapy per week, and I find that it's really helpful in dealing with all of his social issues. They go through things like reviewing your emotions, and how to describe them, practice taking turns, communicating things using words (like saying I don't want to talk about that right now, instead of ignoring someone). Also, with school work, he also gets very focused about certain topics, and doesn't want to work on non-preferred work. It seems like home schooling plus ABA might be the best fit? Since he's so advanced academically, I think it would be really frustrating being with people who aren't at his academic level.